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Sexed Up

How Society Sexualizes Us, and How We Can Fight Back

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The author of landmark manifesto Whipping Girl exposes the violent ways we are all sexualized–then offers a bold path for resistance

Feminists have long challenged the ways in which men tend to sexualize women. But pioneering activist, biologist, and trans woman Julia Serano argues that sexualization is a far more pervasive problem, as it's something that we all do to other people, often without being aware of it.

Why do we perceive men as sexual predators and women as sexual objects? Why are LGBTQ+ people stereotyped as being sexually indiscriminate and deceptive? Why are people of color still being hypersexualized? These stereotypes push minorities farther into the margins, and even the privileged are policed from transgressing, lest they also become targets. Many view sexualization as a mere component of sexism, racism, or queerphobia, but Serano argues that liberation from sexual violence comes through collectively confronting sexualization itself.

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    • Publisher's Weekly

      March 7, 2022
      Biologist and transgender activist Serano (99 Erics) explores in this lucid account the dangers of nonconsensual sexualization, or “when an individual is reduced to their sexual body or behaviors rather than viewed as a whole person.” Attitudes that feed sexualization, according to Serano, include the “two filing cabinet” mindset, in which people categorize others as male or female and ignore cues that challenge that categorization, and the “unmarked/marked” mindset, in which variations from the “default status” attract unwanted attention and foster assumptions that the person has an agenda. Serano also addresses the intersections between sexualization and racism; reflects on her experiences of society’s gendered expectations as a bisexual trans woman; and discusses the “potential pitfalls” of destigmatizing trans people, including “ostensibly sex-positive portrayals of sexual diversity sensationalize our supposedly taboo or transgressive nature.” Her advice for combatting sexualization includes treating others “as distinct individuals with desires of their own” and “moving away from judging sex and sexuality in terms of good versus bad.” Serano succeeds in explicating a wide range of complex ideas about gender, sexuality, and identity, and offers incisive new frameworks for reckoning with some of the most discussed issues in contemporary feminism and queer culture. The result is a nuanced and approachable guide to “making sex more equitable.”

    • Library Journal

      April 23, 2022

      Biologist and activist Serano (Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity) takes a deep dive into the sexualization of American society and offers solutions on how individuals can unlearn these ingrained behaviors. Through a combination of social science research and anecdotal experiences, Serano describes how sexual stereotypes become embedded and accepted norms. Serano also examines the ways in which language reinforces these sexual double standards and tropes, pigeonholing people into roles they don't fit into, and how damaging this can be not only to individuals, but to society as well. Stigmatization plays a big role in exacerbating the problem, as does the portrayal of sexuality by mainstream media outlets (which, while not the focus of this book, is a topic readers can explore further in the 2020 Netflix documentary Disclosure). Serano shows how virtually everyone does this, including examples of times she exhibited such behavior; it's a consequence of growing up with and unconsciously absorbing all these cultural messages and biases, she writes. The good news? Serano believes that once people are aware of these behaviors, they can begin confronting and eradicating them. Includes bibliographical references. VERDICT An engaging and thoughtful addition for any library's popular human sexuality collection.--Venessa Hughes

      Copyright 2022 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

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