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The Marriage Sabbatical

A Novel

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What if you could take a vacation from your marriage? A couple decides to give it a shot in this fun, adventurous novel by Lian Dolan, the popular author of The Sweeney Sisters and Lost and Found in Paris.

After twenty-three years of building careers and raising kids together, Jason and Nicole Elswick are ready for a break from their daily lives. Jason has spent years planning his dream sabbatical—ditching work for a nine-month-long motorcycle trip through South America. Problem is, that's Jason's dream, not Nicole's. After years working retail and parenting in Portland, Nicole craves the sun of the Southwest and the artistic community in Santa Fe, where she wants to learn jewelry design.

A chance encounter at a dinner party presents a surprising—and intriguing—way out of their dilemma. Over a little too much wine, Jason and Nicole's married neighbors sing the praises of the 500 Mile Rule: their policy of enjoying themselves however they wish—and with whomever they wish—when they're temporarily far apart. It seems like the perfect solution: nine months pursuing their own adventures—with a bit of don't-ask-don't-tell—and then a return to their shared lives. It'll be a sabbatical from their marriage as well as their day jobs.

As Jason bikes his way across a continent and Nicole reclaims the art she's long neglected, they discover the pleasures and pitfalls of the 500 Mile Rule, confronting temptations of all kinds, uncomfortable truths about themselves, and gaining new perspective on their partnership.

But all sabbaticals come to an end...then what?

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    • Publisher's Weekly

      February 12, 2024
      In the enticing latest from Dolan (Lost and Found in Paris), a married couple takes a nine-month break from each other in search of self-fulfillment. Jason Elswick, 50, is about to begin a yearlong sabbatical from his book publishing company. His wife Nicole, who works in retail, having stalled on her management career track at a high-end department store years earlier to focus on raising their two children, dreads Jason’s time away in Patagonia, where he plans to gather material for a travel book. What she really wants to do is enroll in a silversmithing program in Santa Fe. With both of their kids studying abroad for college, Jason and Nicole agree to pursue their own interests and follow the “Five Hundred Mile Rule” practiced by their neighbors, which permits them to have sex with other people when they’re at least 500 miles from home. Jason and Nicole hope their plans will lead to a “midlife triumph” rather than provide further evidence of their midlife crises, and Dolan treats her characters with respect as they negotiate the limits of their ambitions. There are plenty of surprises along the way, including the couple’s unique riff on the 500-mile rule. Dolan elevates her diverting story with plenty of sharp insights about middle age. Agent: Yfat Reis Gendell, YRG Partners.

    • Library Journal

      September 13, 2024

      Jason and Nicole Elswick's marriage has lasted for 23 years. They have raised two children, weathered the pandemic, and experienced joys and heartaches. With their children spending the year abroad, Jason is off to take a work sabbatical in the form of a motorcycle trip in South America. Nicole decides not to accompany him and instead enrolls in a silversmithing class in New Mexico. She and Jason decide to enact their neighbors' policy of taking a break from their marriage whenever they are more than 500 miles apart, and they go on separate journeys, planning to reunite after nine months. Dolan paints an honest portrait of a long-term partnership, addressing the uncomfortable truths of monogamy and the loss of individual self that can plague a marriage. The depiction of ethical nonmonogamy is compassionate, exemplifying how it can work (and not) for different people. Narrator Stacey Glemboski does a brilliant job of expressing the breadth and depth of emotion experienced by both main characters. While the ending is somewhat rushed and undoes some of the earlier open-mindedness of the plot, the overall story will have listeners rooting for the couple. VERDICT Recommended for readers of relationship fiction and authors like Jennifer Weiner and Elin Hilderbrand.--Katy Duperry

      Copyright 2024 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

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